All self-checks

Online therapy & counselling for self-esteem

When you’re your own harshest critic.

Affordable, open-ended therapy for low self-esteem and self-worth. A weekly hour that’s yours, to be on your own side again.

You might recognise
A harsh, constant inner critic
Feeling not good enough, whatever you do
Comparing yourself unfavourably to others
Struggling to accept praise or take credit
Putting everyone else’s needs first
Holding back for fear of not being enough

The self-esteem self-check

How kind are you being to yourself?

A short reflection, written by Hora. It won’t diagnose anything, but it can help you notice how you’re relating to yourself.

Private by design: your answers stay in your browser. We don’t see, save or track them, and nothing here is linked to you.

Over the last two weeks, how often have you felt…

1. Felt you’re not good enough
2. Been highly self-critical, or hard on yourself
3. Felt others are more capable or worthwhile than you
4. Struggled to feel proud of what you do
5. Doubted your worth, or that you matter
6. Held back for fear of not being good enough

A reflective check written by Hora: a signpost, not a diagnosis.

How it works

Three steps to get you started:

1

An assessment

A 25-minute assessment with an experienced clinician, to understand what you need and find the right fit.

2

Choose your therapist

Straight after your assessment, you’re sent a selection of therapist profiles to browse, each with their own specialisms and interests. You choose who you’d like to work with, and begin soon after, with no long wait for your first session.

3

A weekly hour

Open-ended weekly sessions online, at the same time each week, held just for you. No contract and no minimum commitment, so you stay for as long as it helps.

£26 for your first assessment, then £40 a session. No membership and no minimum commitment.

How Hora helps with self-esteem

A kinder, steadier relationship with yourself.

Your therapist is equipped to understand where the self-criticism comes from, and help you meet yourself more kindly. The same steady hour, every week, held for as long as it helps.

Good to know

Common questions

Yes. Low self-esteem is learned, which means it can be understood and unlearned. Therapy helps you trace where the critical voice came from, loosen its grip, and build a steadier sense of worth that doesn’t depend on constant achievement or approval.

See all questions and answers