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LGBTQIA+, gender & identity

Therapy that gets it, without you having to explain.

Affordable, open-ended, affirming therapy for LGBTQIA+ people and anyone navigating gender, sexuality or identity. A weekly hour that’s yours, to simply be yourself.

You might bring
Questions about identity, gender or sexuality
The weight of coming out, or being out
Family, faith or cultural tension
Exhaustion from prejudice or having to explain yourself
Gender questioning, transition, or dysphoria
Relationships, belonging, shame or self-worth

A gentle check-in

How much are you carrying right now?

This isn’t about your identity: there’s nothing to diagnose there. It’s a short, private reflection, informed by research on minority stress, on how the pressures around it might be affecting you.

Private by design: your answers stay in your browser. We don’t see, save or track them, and nothing here is linked to you.

Over the last two weeks, how often have you felt…

1. Felt you had to hide or downplay who you are
2. Braced for rejection, judgement or prejudice
3. Felt exhausted from having to explain or justify yourself
4. Felt unsafe or unwelcome because of your identity
5. Felt alone with it, or short of people who truly get it
6. Felt shame, or that you had to earn acceptance

A reflective check written by Hora: a signpost, not a diagnosis.

How it works

Three steps to get you started:

1

An assessment

A 25-minute assessment with an experienced clinician, to understand what you need and find the right fit.

2

Choose your therapist

Straight after your assessment, you’re sent a selection of therapist profiles to browse, each with their own specialisms and interests. You choose who you’d like to work with, and begin soon after, with no long wait for your first session.

3

A weekly hour

Open-ended weekly sessions online, at the same time each week, held just for you. No contract and no minimum commitment, so you stay for as long as it helps.

£26 for your first assessment, then £40 a session. No membership and no minimum commitment.

How Hora helps

Somewhere you don’t have to translate yourself.

Your therapist is equipped to meet you as you are, and provide a space where you never have to explain yourself. The same steady hour, every week, held for as long as it helps.

Good to know

Common questions

Yes. Affirming practice is our baseline, not an add-on: your identity is respected, never treated as the problem or as something to be explained. You won’t have to educate your therapist about who you are before you can get to the actual work. Both of Hora’s directors are gay, so it isn’t affirming as a policy; it’s affirming because this community is ours too.

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