All self-checks

Online therapy & counselling for grief & loss

When someone, or something, is gone.

Affordable, open-ended therapy for grief and loss. A weekly hour that’s yours, to grieve in your own time.

You might recognise
Waves of sorrow that arrive without warning
Struggling to accept that they’re gone
Feeling numb, or strangely flat
Little interest in the things you used to love
Guilt, anger, or ‘if only’ thoughts
Feeling stuck, as if grief hasn’t shifted

The grief self-check

How is grief sitting with you?

A short, gentle reflection, written by Hora. It won’t diagnose anything, grief isn’t an illness, but it can help you notice how you’re carrying it.

Private by design: your answers stay in your browser. We don’t see, save or track them, and nothing here is linked to you.

Over the last two weeks, how often have you felt…

1. Aching for what is no longer there
2. As though a part of you hasn’t taken it in
3. That the ordinary world has lost some of its colour
4. Set apart from other people, or from things you used to enjoy
5. Caught off guard by the force of it
6. As though time has moved on and you haven’t

A reflective check written by Hora: a signpost, not a diagnosis.

How it works

Three steps to get you started:

1

An assessment

A 25-minute assessment with an experienced clinician, to understand what you need and find the right fit.

2

Choose your therapist

Straight after your assessment, you’re sent a selection of therapist profiles to browse, each with their own specialisms and interests. You choose who you’d like to work with, and begin soon after, with no long wait for your first session.

3

A weekly hour

Open-ended weekly sessions online, at the same time each week, held just for you. No contract and no minimum commitment, so you stay for as long as it helps.

£26 for your first assessment, then £40 a session. No membership and no minimum commitment.

How Hora helps with grief

Someone to sit with it, at your pace.

Your therapist is equipped to sit with your grief, and help you carry it. The same steady hour, every week, held for as long as it helps.

Good to know

Common questions

Yes. Grief has no fixed timetable, and it often softens and returns in waves for months or years: especially around anniversaries and milestones. There’s no ‘too long’. If grief stays intense and stops you living your life, that’s a sign talking to someone could help, not that you’re doing it wrong.

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